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Wednesday, 20 July 2016

Staying in your comfort zone makes you a LOSER.

Goldfish jumping out of the more occupied bowl and towards a bowl that is much comfortable and less crowded. 

Do not get me wrong. If life can decidable, everyone definitely loves living comfortably. Most people go to work every single day and fight for life just because they want to live comfortably or let their family to live comfortably. However, it is difficult to detect if a person is living in comfort.

Today, typical office workers might have projects that cannot finish in time and they often work overtime till midnight, causing them to feel weary. On the flip side, because of this stress, they may grow to become a better, smarter, intelligent and sophisticated person, especially in their work field. It is worth noting that people only develop under one special state, which you feel considerably uncomfortable.

If life can be determined by ourselves, who wouldn’t want to have a job that is near our homes, less busy but lucrative? However, think deeply profoundly and carefully, is this really good? During your young days, when you are most energetic, most able to overcome failures and most able to withstand pressure, you choose to live comfortably, doesn’t this waste your prime?


Whether we are living in your comfort zone, we will not detect this easily. For example, we may have been living comfortably for a long period of time and we find out that we have actually wasted our competitiveness in the workplace and that we have been overtaken competitors. To prevent this, the best way is to constantly remind ourselves to stay out of our comfort zone. A best way to do this is to list down your goal(s) and paste it at a most conspicuous place where you will pass through every day.

Now, stop whatever you are doing and think thoroughly and warily whether you are living very comfortably recently. If you are still young, you regularly enjoy your life and repeatedly engaging in activities such as travelling, tasting delicious food, watching movie, lazing at home, playing digital games, watching movie at cinema with friends and overly dating. Now, again, ask yourself, is this really good? When you are young and most capable of learning, you choose to spend time on those activities, is this appropriate?

We tend to overlook a trivial point, which is the cost of learning. At your young times, learning cost is the lowest and with increasing age, the cost of learning heightens accordingly. At a young age of about 20, we might learn a skill in just one day. However, after 5 years, we might need 2 days to learn that skill. Due to this, we should grasp our youth firmly and seriously, taking advantage of it to learn more at those times. The sooner we get our professional capacity, the greater our advantage.


Human beings are a kind of animal who always will make themselves cozy. Once being careless, you will think of allowing yourself to be comfortable. Hence, it is undetectable when we are living in our comfort zone. Unknowingly, the gaps between people are stretched wide apart. It is usually too late when we find out that.

What you read here can also be applied to your fitness lifestyle. Do get fit now and your life expectancy will possible lengthen!

Thereby, note down all the things you want to do and your goals and paste it at a highly visible place, same as that I mention above and try to accomplish them now or DREAM ON!



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Tuesday, 5 July 2016

In Life, you MUST KNOW that There's Nothing to hold on for.


A journey is very different from life. During your journey, you will meet a lot of people but you will always meet these three kinds of persons:

The first kind – He/she makes you feel like you should have known him/her in our early life and you would like to continue being together with him/her after knowing him/her. Also, you would love to continue the trip with him/her to the extent that you wish to keep in touch with him/her after the end of the trip.

The second kind – They are very nasty that you want to move away from them as soon as possible and you even hope that you will never ever meet this kind of people in your next life. Remember that in future, when experiencing such people, you can never be soft-hearted and must make an enormous distance between them. Simply, they don’t deserve your benevolence because they make you feel like being in hell. 

The third kind – They are just ordinary travellers. Conversations with them can carry out smoothly and when leaving, you will not especially miss them. Even someday when you meet them again, you will not feel any excitement as to you, they are just passers-by. Probably after a few days, you will not even think of them and virtually, they just disappear in your memory.

In fact, during my journey, I encounter most third kind of people and the conversation with them usually is like:

“Where are you come from?”
“Oh, how many days do you stay here?”        
“Where have you gone before?”
“Any places that you would recommend going?”


Perhaps some people will talk about more, which would be like :
“Where did you go for the past few days?”
“What places or destinations do you find worth visiting?”
“Where will you be visiting next?”

No matter whether the people you meet are from the first or second kind, eventually they will become the third kind. Overly missing or thinking this kind of people makes you rigid and overly hating them will create resentment.

Nevertheless, why not we just maintain a dull mind and continue the journey? In reality, everyone is just a passer-by and they are only discovered during our journey. Sometimes, feeling that we are deeply in love of whom we cannot afford to lose but that could be just our very shallow thought of feeling of love.

In the past, I questioned myself that, ‘why I love her(him) so much?’ when she(he) just gave me half of my love, which meant I love her more than she did. In life, I believe that everyone had tried hard to keep our love relationship(s) but we would somehow feel dispirited because our partner did not put in more effort than we did in the relationship.

Crying and feeling unfair and angry are the consequences of feeling the unwanted feeling from our partner.


There is an uphill increase of the number of people plunging into my journey, walking past me. During my journey, I begin to face myself and all those ambiguous relationships. While thinking and reflecting my journey, I gradually learnt to let go. I stopped hating those who made me mad and stopped thinking about those eventual third kind of people, and finally I unlocked all the fetters on me.

If the last part of my journey leave me alone, it is only me to accompany myself completing it. In life, people come and go every certain time for example, during our years of studies in a particular college. Therefore, instead of distressing myself with those passers-by, why not we just simply live the life we want?

Being single is not a bad thing. It is worth mentioning that when one dies, he/she goes himself/herself without your companion. Moreover, being lonely is not terrible because in the beginning of our life, we are destined to be alone.

As long as you think carefully and thoroughly, and learn to be flexible, your life will be a peaceful one. Remember, everyone is just passer-by so there is nothing at all to hold on for or let go. Predominantly, the only thing that you should never ever let go and never lose is yourself.

Thank you for reading! I hope you learn something after reading this article. Please feel free to comment below and share!