In Life, you MUST KNOW that There's Nothing to hold on for.

A journey is very different from life. During your journey, you will meet a lot of people but you will always meet these three kinds of persons:

The first kind – He/she makes you feel like you should have known him/her in our early life and you would like to continue being together with him/her after knowing him/her. Also, you would love to continue the trip with him/her to the extent that you wish to keep in touch with him/her after the end of the trip.

The second kind – They are very nasty that you want to move away from them as soon as possible and you even hope that you will never ever meet this kind of people in your next life. Remember that in future, when experiencing such people, you can never be soft-hearted and must make an enormous distance between them. Simply, they don’t deserve your benevolence because they make you feel like being in hell. 

The third kind – They are just ordinary travellers. Conversations with them can carry out smoothly and when leaving, you will not especially miss them. Even someday when you meet them again, you will not feel any excitement as to you, they are just passers-by. Probably after a few days, you will not even think of them and virtually, they just disappear in your memory.

In fact, during my journey, I encounter most third kind of people and the conversation with them usually is like:

“Where are you come from?”

“Oh, how many days do you stay here?”        

“Where have you gone before?”

“Any places that you would recommend going?”

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Perhaps some people will talk about more, which would be like :

“Where did you go for the past few days?”

“What places or destinations do you find worth visiting?”

“Where will you be visiting next?”

No matter whether the people you meet are from the first or second kind, eventually they will become the third kind. Overly missing or thinking this kind of people makes you rigid and overly hating them will create resentment.

Nevertheless, why not we just maintain a dull mind and continue the journey? In reality, everyone is just a passer-by and they are only discovered during our journey. Sometimes, feeling that we are deeply in love of whom we cannot afford to lose but that could be just our very shallow thought of feeling of love.

In the past, I questioned myself that, ‘why I love her(him) so much?’ when she(he) just gave me half of my love, which meant I love her more than she did. In life, I believe that everyone had tried hard to keep our love relationship(s) but we would somehow feel dispirited because our partner did not put in more effort than we did in the relationship.

Crying and feeling unfair and angry are the consequences of feeling the unwanted feeling from our partner.

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There is an uphill increase of the number of people plunging into my journey, walking past me. During my journey, I begin to face myself and all those ambiguous relationships. While thinking and reflecting my journey, I gradually learnt to let go. I stopped hating those who made me mad and stopped thinking about those eventual third kind of people, and finally I unlocked all the fetters on me.

If the last part of my journey leave me alone, it is only me to accompany myself completing it. In life, people come and go every certain time for example, during our years of studies in a particular college. Therefore, instead of distressing myself with those passers-by, why not we just simply live the life we want?

Being single is not a bad thing. It is worth mentioning that when one dies, he/she goes himself/herself without your companion. Moreover, being lonely is not terrible because in the beginning of our life, we are destined to be alone.

As long as you think carefully and thoroughly, and learn to be flexible, your life will be a peaceful one. Remember, everyone is just passer-by so there is nothing at all to hold on for or let go. Predominantly, the only thing that you should never ever let go and never lose is yourself.

Thank you for reading! I hope you learn something after reading this article. Please feel free to comment below and share!